I am speaking to you today because ABORTION HURTS WOMEN.
It’s taken me over 34 years to be healed, strong and brave enough to share
In 1973, as a 22-year-old, naïve and unsuspecting college girl, a long
way from home. I hung out with nice, but amoral people who drank alcohol and
were involved in pre-marital sex. I went along with the crowd and the
consequences were my getting pregnant, although I didn’t know it at the
time. I was too proud and independent to ask my family for help. I ended up
at a "free" Planned Parenthood clinic (PP). They did a test and told me it
was "positive." PP told me "it" was “only a blob of tissue” which could
easily be removed for $200 (cash).
When I arrived for the “procedure,” the man entered the room and said
something about giving me a shot and that I would hear a sound like a
vacuum. He did NOT tell me about the horrible cramping and pain I would
experience. I was awake through the procedure and experienced
excruciating pain. I was crying and did not understand what
was happening. I’ll never forget the pain and the noises coming from the
tubes going out of my body. Everything went silent. The "doctor" turned away
as he said I could rest a few minutes and leave by the back door.
Immediately after the abortion, I felt nauseous, had sharp pains,
experienced a lot of bleeding and weakness-too sick to sit.
I was traumatized. This was my first gynecological experience. To
this day I have trouble going to see a gynecologist.
During the following months, I STILL experienced severe pain and
bleeding. I did not trust Planned Parenthood, so I went to a doctor who told
me what the "procedure" was…an abortion! He also told me that PP had put an
IUD inside me WITHOUT my knowledge or consent! I felt violated,
betrayed and angry! I demanded the IUD to be removed, which was very
painful. The doctor said the tissue damage and scarring in my uterine lining
from the abortion and IUD may cause me to be childless.
Planned Parenthood’s abortionist killed my only child and I am
At this point, I hated myself. I made bad decisions for my life.
Nightmares filled my life. I became a workaholic and a near alcoholic. About
three years after the abortion, I suffered from low
self-esteem, physical pain and many other symptoms including panic attacks,
short-term memory loss, debilitating fatigue, isolation and suicidal
depression. I thought I was going crazy! I saw a psychiatrist. He told me I
wasn’t crazy, but that I was suffering from Post-Traumatic Stress Syndrome.
The hell and reality of remembering the abortion started in the early 1990’s
and continued until March 2008. Abortion cost me my womanhood.
Thank you Father, Son and Holy Spirit. I am now forgiven and
set free and active in helping other women to NOT make
the same mistake I made! The most important thing about abortion
that I think people need to know is that abortion is not the answer to
problems. Abortion creates problems. Women need to SEE and HEAR THE
TRUTH ABOUT the destruction of ABORTION and how it kills their unborn
children. Women need love. Abortion destroyed what made me a
woman. Abortion wreaks havoc on women’s lives - it is NOT a safety net,
but a HEALTH HAZARD!
I regret my abortion. Women deserve better than
lies – they need Truth. With God’s help, I’ll defend TRUTH. I choose
both the woman and her baby whose heart is beating at four weeks!
I AM SILENT NO MORE. Thanks be to God -
there is help and hope for hurting post-abortive
men, women, and families through His Grace and Mercy.
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