Rape and Abortion

Fr. Frank Pavone
National Director
Shouldn't the woman who is raped be able to have an abortion?" Many people, opposed to abortion in other circumstances, ask this question. There are various reasons why abortion is not the answer.

The woman who has been raped has undergone a terrible trauma and injustice. We care about her. We will help her. Such pro-life organizations as Fortress International and Life After Assault League exist to bring the rape victim healing and strength and help her get on with her life. Nobody should minimize or ignore the pain of a rape victim. We want to show her love.

Will an abortion help her? First of all, the abortion will not un-rape the woman. The tragedy has happened and nothing can change the past. Second, abortion brings a trauma of its own. To see abortion as a magic wand that brings relief but no pain is to ignore the pain of countless women who suffer for years and decades after abortion. Such groups as WEBA (Women Exploited By Abortion), American Victims of Abortion, and Victims of Choice provide ample proof that abortion hurts women. I know of women who have been raped and then had abortions, and are in counseling not for the rape but for the abortion! In rape, the trauma is "Someone hurt me." In abortion, the trauma is "I hurt and killed someone else -- my child." That brings even more grief.

Why is rape wrong? Because someone attacks the body of an innocent person. Why is abortion wrong? Because someone attacks the body of an innocent person. That is why both rape and abortion should be rejected.

We care about the woman who is raped. We care about the child who is conceived. Why can't we love them both? Why can't we protect them both?

A rape that results in pregnancy directly involves three people: the rapist, the victim, and the child. The victim should be helped, and the rapist should be punished. But to say the child should be killed is to punish the wrong person. Suppose your father committed a terrible crime and the police came to your home, arrested you, and had you sentenced to death? The unfairness of that is obvious. Yet that is the same unfairness that occurs if a child conceived by rape is aborted.

We should also know the results of some important studies. Pregnancy occurs in 0 to 2.2% of rape victims. Furthermore, most rape victims who become pregnant want to keep their babies. The pressure to abort often comes from someone else. Of all the abortions performed in America, fewer than 1% are because of rape.

For more information on these and other aspects of this question, or for counseling and encouragement, contact:

Life After Assault League (LAAL)
1336 West Lindbergh St.
Appleton, Wisconsin 54914
(920) 739-4489

Abortion is never the answer. Let's not add violence to violence. When it comes to the woman who carries a baby conceived by rape, let's choose to love them both!

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MJ says:
3/28/2016 7:50:01 AM
I don't think women should just be able to go and have abortion anytime they mess up. A woman that is raped and becomes pregnant should have a choice of carrying or not, not every woman mentally or physically handles it or gets over it. Then to add a child to the mix, I I think that would be a descion between the victim and God. But I never see anyone talk about the young fertile girls 9-18 that are raped. Is it right that a child should be forced to carry a child after being violated and trying to emotionally go through a trauma as that. I personally don't think so. I am a rape victim and I was young, I I still have flashbacks or certain males walk up to me I cringe or jump even get sick. I was fortunate not to have gotten pregnant but I will never agree as far as a Child that is raped and pregnated should be forced to carry or condemned for not having a baby when they are babies themselves. But as I said I don't believe abortion is right for women to use because the go screw around and get pregnant and don't want it.

Ann Louise says:
1/10/2016 8:37:18 AM
Psalm 139:13-16. "For You formed my inward parts;
You covered me in my mother’s womb.
14 I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well.
15 My frame (Hebrew: bones) was not hidden from You, When I was made ( appointed)
in the secret (embroidered in the hidden place),
And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth ( the depths/unseen part[of the body]).
16 Your eyes saw ( beheld, regarded) my substance ( embryo),
being yet unformed. And in Your book ( Gods Book: Rev 20:12, 15; Ex 32:32, Ps 69:28)
all my days were written, the days fashioned (planned as the Potter plans his project) for me ,
When as yet there were none of them ( before any of them existed)."

[explanation of words in original language from Strong's Concordance]

Bottom line: God Almighty's Word ( Jesus/Bible) stands eternal in the heavens and earth as "the Final Word." ( "Heaven and earth will pass away but My Words shall never pass away"- Matt 24:35)
All human fetuses (rape/ incest fetuses notwithstanding, God shows no favoritism) are as privileged as King David to be uniquely formed and carefully planned for a purpose on this earth no matter who the father or mother is. Unborn children are innocent and the shedding of innocent blood is condemned in the Word.
We must encourage the birth of all children and in Christian love, help the mothers who are in tragic straits.

Cam says:
3/5/2014 4:29:19 PM
@rose: 'Why would you want to keep "something" that wasn't made by somebody you love?'
That "something" is a living, growing human being. And that human being has his/her own unique, unrepeatable, DNA from both the mother and the perpetrator. He/she would eventually grow into a unique, unrepeatable adult with hopes & aspirations, trials & failures, joys and sorrows. All of those experiences are not ours to deny. That "something" is *someone* and by nature of our common humanity, we are obligated to protect him/her, not discard him/her.

rose says:
2/14/2014 12:20:36 PM
but why would u want to keep something that wasn't made by somebody u love. yes u will love the baby but not the way u get it. its the mothers choice not ours leave it to them to decide not u. what if u were in there place. you can never understand why peole do it but many have good reasons to. and its better than going to foster are, getting beaten

Tita says:
2/4/2014 4:25:09 PM
This is a good one. And i agree with you in everything.

Jim says:
8/19/2012 7:50:32 PM
Can you reference the study on number of pregnancies that occur b/c of rape? Does that include statutory too or is it just assault rape? I want to counter a friend's facebook statement as she is belittling the belief that rape pregnancy is rare. But I only approach these friends with irrefutable, secular, science. Any help would be appreciated.


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