[A message from a man who is the father of a child lost to abortion]:
Men, when you face an unplanned pregnancy and step away, stay silent and allow your woman to have an abortion – you may be signing her death certificate.
Men can be very influential in their relationships with women, especially when sex is involved. In one survey 80% of the women said that they would not have had an abortion if their man had stood by their side and supported them throughout the pregnancy.
Sadly many of us men will do anything it takes to talk a woman into sex.
But when a pregnancy results, we often fail to step up to the plate, leaving behind a wake of death and destruction that women are forced to deal with alone:
1) Eighty percent of Women have mental issues of some kind after an abortion suffering symptoms such as alcohol abuse, drug abuse, anger, depression and anxiety issues and dysfunctional relationships.
3) Premature babies: women that have had abortions are 10 times more likely to have a premature baby born at 22 to 26 weeks, than women that have not had an abortion. (American Association of Prolife Obstetricians and Gynecologists)
4) Breast and Cervical Cancer: women who had abortions are 4 times more likely to have one these cancers after the abortion, than do women that have not had an abortion.
We have all this knowledge about the toxic after-effects of abortion, yet we can’t get our Christian communities to talk about it.
Our pastors need to be calling out men from the pulpits!
With love and charity yes – but Pastors, men hunger for you to call them out. They need you to share the clear and direct truth and call them to accountability.
Men respect someone who looks them in the eye and gives it to them straight…even if the message may be difficult and painful to hear at first.
It used to be that life was precious and a man stood strong and proud of that little person they helped create. The science is clear – this is not a blob of tissue, a turtle, duck or fish.
That is your baby in its momma’s womb. Every life is precious and known by God, even those lost to miscarriage and God desires those souls to be with him in heaven.
Your baby living in the mother’s womb has 50% of your DNA. Don’t let your fear and weakness take over and keep you from standing up and being a man and supporting this woman to give life to your child.
If you and your partner cannot parent this baby, there are countless couples just waiting to love your baby and share their lives with your child. Depending on the type of adoption, you can stay in touch and make sure that your child is well cared for, safe and happy.
Men it is time to shout it from the roof tops.
If you abandon your woman when she is pregnant, you are signing a death certificate for your baby and it’s mother because you did nothing to stop the abortion.
Recovery for Men after Abortion
Just for the record, 42 years ago I did nothing to stop the woman I got pregnant from an abortion, and to this day I have no idea if she is alive or dead.
If you have been part of an abortion decision, we share the Good News of the repentance and healing in Christ Jesus to any man who has participated in the sexual exploitation of women and the death of their unborn children.
If you are a man who you tried everything possible to talk your partner out of an abortion and she still went ahead with the procedure, this can be devastating. Keep in mind that you will need healing of your inability to stop that abortion.
Please consider an abortion recovery program if you have experienced this kind of loss. Men can get stuck in anger and depression and hurt themselves and others in their pain at being powerless to protect their unborn child. The Lord will help you also repent of your role in being sexually active without providing the commitment of a marital covenant that protects mother and baby.
When men experience that conversion of heart and mind, the Holy Spirit will convict them to become soldiers for Christ in the battle to take back our families and communities – and to partner with women to protect our children, born and unborn, from the merchants of death at Planned Parenthood and their allies in academia, entertainment, business and politics.
Planned Parenthood deceives the public that they are advocates for women’s health – when they are in fact a national killing machine that takes the lives of over 300,000 unborn babies per year.
Men Its Time to Stand Up, Speak Out, and Choose Life
With all the information we have today on the effects of abortion on the women, it is a travesty to keep silent.
Men you can change what can be a potential death sentence for the mother of your unborn child – to the blessing of abundant life for them both.
I pray you think twice before you sign that death certificate.
God Bless you.
Brad Cornell is the host of “You are a Dad” radio show on AM 630 The Word, Sunday 8pm San Antonio Texas
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